Tuesday, 2 July 2019

Wanted: Creative Writing for A Kinder Superhero for a More Moral Social Media


Wanted: Creative Writing for A Kinder Superhero for a More Moral Social Media 
Imagination is greater than knowledge ... Albert Einstein 
Do you ever wonder why there is a general fascination with superheroes, especially for young people in their mastery of maturity? This complex question must be examined in reference to ancient mythology, today’s social conscience within social media, and creative writing to create a kinder, gentler superhero for our times.
 Who hasn’t been fascinated by Greek mythological heroes, creatures and what they represented about the origin and nature of the world? There were gods, goddesses, half human, half god, magical mortals with and without superpowers, battling fearsome creatures like the Minotaur or Medusa, who are still  part of our modern folklore. It can also be said that many of these brave heroes were willing to take risks, face dangerous  situations in order to gain more understanding of society itself with many moral affiliations.
For whatever reason, children are fascinated by grim tales of ogres crushing their bones or wolves hunting their grandmothers. Perhaps there is solace in reading such an ending where everybody seems to live-happily-ever-after; a common phrase deeply embedded into our daily stories as well.
The effect and value of myths or superheroes cannot be understated because they can actively impact our thinking or cognitive frameworks as to what is right, wrong, good, bad, enemy or champion. But ancient champions never had to face the cyber world, an interactive matrix where the dividing lines between virtual reality and the real world are often blurred.
So, what kinds of superhuman forces affect our modern social conscience? Where do superheroes exist today? Who lives happily-ever-after in our current struggles and culture?
It makes me weep like the myth of the weeping willow tree that serves as a reminder that love cannot exist without tears. Take a look around at what young people see and acknowledge as superheroes. One type is found in comic books via movies and video games; and a second type is found in the social media circus, especially for young teens.
Today’s cultural heroes on films have almighty superpowers to vanquish evil forces that would destroy humanity or the earth itself. They display great fights with dismemberment flying everywhere in a violent phantasmagoria. Good wins over evil but at what spectacle on the visual cortex and collateral damage to the innocent?
Video games particularly add a depth of hyper realism with graphics that bring the actions closer; blood, guts and brutality are now full frontal. At which point can game violence  jump from the screen to the family room or public front? The impact of violent media on kids is relatively unstudied or unknown; never a problem with Pegasus, unicorns or dragons until their violent modernization in Game of Thrones.  
Today, our culture has been impacted and controlled by an almighty Zeus known as the internet with its lightning bolts of interdependence and interactivity. There is no doubt that interactions with open-ended, unlimited media exposure have profoundly influenced the social, economic and even political arenas; as well as impacting the mythic and moral spheres of influence.
Two new kinds of internet action figures have arisen.
First, there is a new class of social media heroes or heroines who have mortal characteristics but with super normal magnetic attractions based on looks, money, connections, or fame who call out their siren song for everybody to like and follow them. But they live in reality shows that are as elusive as the Elysian beautiful meadows in the mythological underworld where only the godly favored could find perfect happiness in an ultimate paradise where popular brands abide, where money talks, with or without justification or morals. Mere mortals dare to dream, like mini gods and goddesses, as close as their fingertips as much as their newly programmed mind can turn the abnormal godly world into normal. Do these self-entitled heroes have the right to feed on dispossessed and vulnerable victims for what purposes like old ogres in Grimm tales?
Second, there is the active digital cyber hero who wants to be the all-mighty "tough guy;” quick to bully, derogate, and offer safe haven for followers of the same stripes and scars. This profound leap from ignoble loser to worshiped hero would never happen in a mythological world where strength in morality was as important as physical might. It can be said that only a socially abnormality like this can threaten the shared social consciousness where such mass media control can produce and endorse an anti-hero. Even democratic rules can dissipate in the flood of the richest and boldest celebrities who offer the most happy-ever-after mantras.
As a teacher, the point I am trying to make is that any cultural system helps to reproduce itself by the value of its symbols and heroes. We are all plugged into this public arena, watching and participating with different distinctly human behaviors; honor, pride, respect, or guilt, selfishness, shame, disgrace and dysphoria. 
So, how do we find a social conscience in a digital society where approval and disapproval are determined by narcissistic rewards of living up to hyped-up, unnatural group expectations even when virtual group standards are less worthy of social unity and freedom?
Remember what happened to Narcissus who was a very beautiful young man in Greek mythology, loved instantly by many for his looks for whom he only showed contempt. He even cast aside a nymph now forever called Echo because she wilted away from her unrequited sorrow to a mere sound. In retribution, a goddess, led Narcissus to a pool to see his own reflection, but when he realized that a reflection can never materialize into reality, he committed suicide. Therein lies the moral that narcissism or ego should not be about vanity and true self is beyond self-reflection or public perception. 
So how does this morality apply to posting Selfies for gratification for the sake of whose morality?
We can never undermine the fact that the combined power of the group in our culture is what makes our social conscience; greater than an individual, a collective rule of thumb. Our society’s heroes, groups and norms are us. 
However, the ingrained problem in any culture has always remained that we cannot remove the images, icons and concepts once they have marched across the stage or infiltrated the brain. People just want to believe in the impossible, in following the promises of heroes to add some magic to ordinary lives. Contradiction is futile in any cognitive schema of hope and living happily-for-ever-after.
Finally, so how can creative writing help?  We need to create new heroes who are gentler, kinder and more interactive who believe in the greater good in a more equitable and democratic society without recourse to violence. We need a brighter “heroic imagination,” with attitudes about caring, helping others,  and moving forward to defend moral causes. The internet offers such potential where every person can collaborate and share our acts both online and offline.
Here are two examples of creative writing to help set new role models for noble goals.
A story about a teen girl’s survival in social media with a personal superpower tool; namely, the management of a timeline connecting in real time the intangible past, present and future. What can be more powerful than that for success?
A story about a special water sprite with roots on a mission to discover cyclical truths in the natural ecosystem with continuous surprises about the interdependence of all living forms from the smallest to the invisible largest inhabitant. 
Our culture needs more stories and movies especially for younger people. How about your imagination to create a reality that matters to humanity? What kind of superheroes can you introduce with morals and beliefs to change the world? How can we work together towards to making the dream real and to live-happily-ever-after?
Comments and dialogue are always important. What are your ideas and thoughts.
Sincerely,
Annemarie
amarie10@gmail.com   Please set a time that works for you.
Teen Girl Faces Time in the Sand
The Incredible Journey of a Water Sprite with Roots  

Saturday, 29 June 2019

CHALLENGE: Compare and Dare to Beat My 10 TOP Reasons for Online Marketing Success with TCP


Challenge: Compare and Dare to Beat my 10 TOP Reasons for Online Marketing Success with The Conversion Pros (TCP)

My problem, without an easy answer, is there must be a way to harness Income Mobility by sharing important information with careful judgment to do good for others by simplifying how to succeed with marketing on the internet.

WHY NOT? For example, today, internet technology can condense and present a volume of information with no critical details missing with ONE LINK and a free trial to see if it works for you or not. Why would anyone reject a professional marketing product honed and proven to work with a personal trial? (excerpt: The Self Franchise Report) 



I'm sure we agree that because of the evolutionary nature of internet marketing, it is capable to both compound and/or simplify the process. The question is do you want work hard compounding the many tasks or do you want to simplify the work by sharing a total suite of marketing tools with one link to simplify the process of internet marketing.


This is how to leverage business expertise at the highest level. Share a product that is built from a corporate background, with proven leadership skills, branding, inclusive training which has taken decades in the making. 
Leveraging expertise can now be a quick link on your keyboard.


Your challenge is to compare the delivery and benefits of your online marketing program with The Conversion Pros. 

Here are my 10 TOP REASONS:
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  10. The Conversion Pros is a U.S. company. It has been helping small business owners market their products and services worldwide in 57 countries for over 3 years now.
You are invited to check this marketing funnel and take it for a test drive if you feel you may be missing out, paying too much, working too hard, not helping your team,not progressive enough or if you just want to make an extra stream of income promoting your business.

In fact, The Conversion Pros has made it possible how to be a self-franchised marketer.

Questions, comments are important. Please request your best time to talk.
Annemarie Berukoff
amarie10@gmail.com


PS:Still looking for more with the TCP Marketing Suite:

  •  a landing page builder that creates unlimited lead generation and sales funnels (capture and landing pages) with tracking pixels
  • an autoresponder builder that creates unlimited autoresponders with unlimited contacts
  • a contact manager that allows you to store and manage unlimited contacts
  • a webinar builder that creates unlimited webinar pages with timer
  • a mobile site builder to create unlimited mobile sites
  • a blogging platform to create a blog on Wordpress
  • an invoice tool to create and manage unlimited invoices
  • an email broadcaster to broadcast your email to an entire list
  • a SMS broadcaster that allows you to send a text to your entire list
  • a tiny URL system to shorten your URL links and track clicks on them
  • a link rotator to create unlimited tracked link rotators
  • a QR code builder that allows you to create unlimited QR codes
  • generic and local marketing videos you can use on your pages.


If you know a better system, please let me know!



Tuesday, 25 June 2019

A Strange Thing Happens Writing This Story About the MS Journey for Twin Brothers


A Strange Thing Happens Writing This Story About the MS Journey for Twin Brothers


Truth must be experienced rather than told because language fails to convey belief and is only the barest shadow of reality...Plato


A strange thing happens as I continued to write about this MS journey for twin brothers. You climb to the top of this Sick Mountain; and look out at an all-encompassing landscape with more insight than before. Time for everyone to look and see a complex medical system established over decades that has spawned relationships and functions of many different participants. Time to see inalienable changes happening not so distantly.

First, you need to identify the background, pieces and players. It starts with a body of human biochemistry based on the integrity of a single cell to be healthy or sick. There are two basic kinds of diseases...infectious caused by outside agents with potential to be cured by drugs or cellular degenerative diseases often caused by lifestyle choices which drugs may treat but not cure. 

The largest most powerful structure is the FDA FORTRESS entrenched on drug experiments, mostly animal, in the name of clinical trials based on a double-blind, random process. Along the way, FDA passed a mandate that "only drugs can mitigate or cure disease;" so, they still actively continue to regulate herbs or seek natural patents for profits. 
Cannabis was called an illegal dangerous schedule 1 substance in 1972, regardless of thousands of years of showing various healing benefits.

In 2010, the MS community felt a paradigm shift which shook the medical system to its foundation. A Liberation War for Blood Flow began with scientific evidence that structural venous malformations affecting blood flow, or reflux, may cause MS inflammation, not an attack by the body's own protective immune cells.  As expected, the medical establishment and the MS Society, did not accept any new theory that questioned their mantra and drug money flow.

Now, here we are close to 2020, and a new challenger is literally growing in the medical landscape. The cannabis or marijuana plant has many cannabinoids that integrate with the body's own endocannabinoid receptors which may explain its natural affinity to healing various problems. So, this new Liberation War for Mother Nature's Cannabis is starting where people can return to natural botanical roots with a new mantra: better to be on the omniscient side of nature's pharmacy than against it. In other words, if a 50 year experimental laboratory era has produced such an over-medicalized society with few results, then who would deny giving Nature its fair turn? Not us.

It is inevitable that the FDA's drug culture will be seriously questioned; even as public trust is tarnished by the opioid crisis. This bastion will not disassemble readily and will resist with every legality they can formulate to maintain its superiority and profitability. The FDA  laboratories, filled with unpronounceable man-made chemicals, are standing at a crossroads ... how to clinically experiment with a natural product filled with phytochemicals in order to standardize a prescription that fits all needs.

In fact, the horizon clearly shows the many reasons why FDA may have too many conflicts to do this research properly. The climax of this journey is to call out that independent research is mandatory. There is no need to go through clinical trials and wait for approval to market a natural product through a highly detailed, specialized, and ultimate bureaucratic process that costs millions of dollars and takes years to complete. Who thinks drinking celery juice is risky?

The good news: there is a new, willing and able challenger to the FDA called the cannabis production company. This is where the governments, like Health Canada, can inspect, regulate and certify consistent and efficient production with leading edge technologies like automation, customization, scalability, with Good Manufacturing Practices to ensure purity and potency.

In Chapter 5, Part 2, there are 3 calls to action for people's voices be heard clearly:
...integrate all medical specialists, play the role of an informed consumer, and remove Mother Nature from the laboratory dissection table. 

The chapters start at the beginning with MS diagnosis for my twin brothers ... tall, handsome strong men; to unsuccessful expensive drug treatments, to CCSVI rebels in Mexico when Canada blocked only MS patients from opening constricted veins, to Lyme's disease antibiotic treatments, to other possible options, to residential care, to divorce and cognitive disabilities. Strangely, a cat's spirit binds us all together.  

Interestingly, this journey about truth didn't plan to end with independent cannabis research; it just evolved to where there were no better directions and no better vista with the most hopes.

This e-book will be available on my personal website next week: Helpful Mindstreams for Changes. Check  SHOP NOW for link.


THE TRUE MS JOURNEY of TWIN BROTHERS BY THEIR SISTER MARY


Questions and comments are always welcome. Together we can make a difference.

Mary Berukoff
amarie10@gmail.com

As a bottom line, we know there is no benevolence found here in corporate marketing and profiteering as the Plutocrats (Rule by the Wealthy) will not let go of these vaults without fearsome opposition. Only the government’s highest levels can intercept and redirect any would-be monopolies. But people need to speak on behalf of Mother Nature’s inalienable intellectual rights and protect them with openness and diversity. Write to elected officials. (see sample letter in appendix) excerpt from The True MS Journey of Twin Brothers by their Sister Mary 






Monday, 24 June 2019

New Introduction to Personal Website with Better Mission Statement and New E-Book



New Introduction to Personal Website with Improved Mission Statement and New E-Book 



"Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way." 
 Viktor E. Frankl  




Welcome to this unique personal website. This website is my unique legacy to the past, present and future generations based on 70 years of much experience, contemplation and finally a legacy to leave the world as such.

MISSION STATEMENT: TIME FOR BETTER STORIES for BETTER SOCIETIES

Helpful Mindstream for Changes asks four basic questions:

1. If it is undeniable that internet marketing has simplified and compounded, then how can regular marketers and business owners adapt to changes and compete fairly at low cost with marketing powerhouses?

2. Is there a way to show teenage girls that their adolescent brains may have been hacked by Social Media causing problems and regrets with Selfie addiction, with a discussion about the importance of respecting their timelines?

3. How can young people discover that ecological systems are related and dependent on each other from the smallest micro-organisms to plants, animals, air, water and even hydrocarbons where humans play a deciding role in survival at all levels?

4. Is there a better way to help the symptoms and suffering of MS (Multiple Sclerosis) patients by regulating independent researchers with medical cannabis, outside of Big Pharma's drug fortress and clinical trials to try and prove the efficacy and health benefits of an ancient  plant with a natural affinity to human biochemistry?

If these questions matter to you, too, then you can find answers here: 
  • How to Start Growing a Profitable Online Business and The Self Franchise Report
  • Teen Girl Faces Time in the Sand (e-book)
  • The Incredible Journey of a Water Sprite with Roots (e-book)
  • The True MS Journey of Twin Brothers by Sister Mary (e-book) 


Multiple Sclerosis (MS) is a devastating disease attacking body. mind and spirit, affecting the whole family. The cause is unknown and drug treatments based on animal experiments haven't worked well for 60 years. Once there was hope with CCSVI to improve blood flow through opening constricted veins denied by the system. There is new hope with medical cannabis where establishment control and obstructions must not be repeated.

  
About Me

I don’t know about you, but I am deeply bothered by Present Changes and wish my Past Voice to be heard. There seems to be a perversion of everyday virtues; a search for self-awareness based on feelings, looks, deficiencies and issues; encouraged by self-promotion and competition within a progressively threatening technology. Labor markets change; social bonds fade; fake news abides, challenging curiosity, knowledge and truth. Swamped with so much information, the ideologues emerge to live in a world of their own making within limitations to the causes and effects in the real world.

What if new stories and images can provide better solutions to these problems than a lecture of facts?

From the vantage point of 70 years, I can’t close my eyes and pretend I can’t see. I must ask how I can help others to believe in the kind of world where responsibility is important in a moral, ethical and social society. The one constant for coping with Change is to stay resilient and look for innovative solutions by practicing different ways of thinking and  new ways of perception or imagination. Our families and planet depend on this focus of what matters more than less.

To this point, I offer a personal mind stream with four important themes about rising up to imminent changes today and tomorrow.

…a possible self-franchise strategy in the digital economy

…a teenage girl's angst in the social media culture and timely solution

…the cyclical truths found in nature's ecosystem via a water sprite with roots

…new research for Nature’s pharmacy with medical cannabis in reference to MS patients

I was born on a pioneer homestead without electric power where the value of hard work and rewards were ingrained. I now walk in a cyberspace both in amazement and fear of unprecedented opportunities to follow your nature or passions; hopefully, in wisdom, respect and hope.

I am a retired teacher with a deep appreciation of the process of learning and educating; from pointing out the difference between precepts and concepts; to why critical thinking matters; and how the decision-making process works with challenges and choices.

I am also part of an extended family and community and am concerned about their future.

Well. that's about it...I'm shaking my head, as you probably are, at this unusual conglomeration...way too much; but how to pick and choose among the valuable lessons and truths in my lifetime that can best help future generations in my honest opinion.

I would very much appreciate any comments, both good and bad, and whether
this personal mind stream is way of course and bound for an impassable waterfall. 

Sincerely,
Annemarie Berukoff
amarie10@gmail.com
250 365 6916





Sunday, 19 May 2019

Most Common Question Asked about the Incredible Journey of The Water Sprite with Plant Roots

Most Common Question Asked about the Incredible Journey of The Water Sprite with Plant Roots


“We are at a unique stage in our history. Never before have we had such an awareness of what we are doing to the planet, and never before have we had the power to do something about that. Surely we all have a responsibility to care for our Blue Planet. The future of humanity and indeed, all life on earth, now depends on us.”
“I know of no pleasure deeper than that which comes from contemplating the natural world and trying to understand it.”
― David Attenborough



There is no question that there is abundant interest in key words like save water, water cycles, balance in ecology, water pollution, climate changes, and natural cycles.

People who care to talk, ask a common question: Is this just a fancy way of describing the water cycle...we already know about that.



No, I refer them to look at the Table of Contents that shows this journey is so much more than one taken on the wind to runoff back to the ocean. It is a journey worthy of a heroic movie of acceptance and survival. 

This story delves deep into the systems that sustain life on earth, their interdependence and mutual survival from the microorganism to the cells of plants to the sun’s energy itself. 

Constrain or lose one part, upset the entire planet's cycles. 

It’s true that there are a few fascinating, imaginary creations that hold a scientific base in their particular system like glaciers, oil lakes, and plastic manufacturing factories.
 
The moral is implied that simple life forms within communities have a serious purpose with the right to exist and maintain potential of all ecosystems. Within diversity is found democracy.  
 
TABLE OF CONTENTS

CHAPTER 1     Meet Water Sprite; the Water Spirit; Mission of Cyclical Truths
CHAPTER 2     Caught in Winter Storm; Severe Danger; First Encystment
CHAPTER 3     Learns about Kalundian Glacier; ice-sprites; climate emergency 
CHAPTER 4     Undergoes an operation to save the Ice Princess legacy; glacial lake
CHAPTER 5     Capture by Nitrifying Bacteria for Ransom; Nitrogen Cycle
CHAPTER 6     Helps to Find a Habitat for Bacteria; reaches Bally Pond
CHAPTER 7     Attack by Amoeba; Rescue by a Rotifer called Roti Tellera
CHAPTER 8     Interacts with community; meets Hydra; goes to school with Hydrozoan
CHAPTER 9     Learns from Stentor; threat of pollution arrives; weapon against humankinds
CHAPTER 10   Discuss plan to stop possible pollution; leaves Bally Pond on a mission
CHAPTER 11   Encounter with first young female humankind; meets her father scientist
CHAPTER 12   Examination under a microscope; exposure to microbes; possible escape
CHAPTER 13   Swallowed  into digestive system; exits human body through sweat gland
CHAPTER 14   Filters down to bedrock; meets an Oiler molecule on a mission
CHAPTER 15   Meets Progenitor, oldest life form; Earth's elements; Carbon Cycle
CHAPTER 16   Oil well disaster; hydrocarbon processing into plastics; meets Polymer
CHAPTER 17   Encounter with a tree; hopeful return and re-connection at Bally Pond
CHAPTER 18   Pollution Disaster; Extinction; Attack and Impossible Plastic Savior  
CHAPTER 19;  Reflection on Lessons Learned; Cyclical Truths Mission Accomplished 
CHAPTER 20   Return to Mother Ocean with Cautionary Words on the Wind


As you can, this is far more than a diagram of a water cycle, crucial as that is. It is one diagram near the end of the journey filled with many previous other diagrams that explain how organisms at all  levels of the ecosystems help to sustain each other. 

What are some of the lessons to be learned?

Stop and be amazed at the specialized simplicity and complexity of life forms, especially the micro-organisms that live in fresh water which may be labeled only as a handful of living cells but with the ability to sense, feed and propagate.

Become aware of Organic Life forms or compounds containing the carbon molecule, the most common life matter and compound on Earth including the hydrocarbon found in fossil fuel and inert manufactured plastics.

Start to appreciate the numerous cycles required for ecology to be balanced from sun and water, to nutrients for primary plants, to animals and decomposing bacteria in both a inclusive, co-operative and limited biosphere. 

There is a strong link to an ECOLOGY ETHIC where exponential growth is not possible.

Do you agree this journey is far beyond the water cycle and worthy of an epic movie!


I appreciate hearing your thoughts about the different experiences and lessons learned.

Sincerely, 
Annemarie
info@helpfulmindstreamforchanges.com


I am deep in thought now; not so much about the physical reality around that can be seen and heard; but deeper into more abstract concepts that deal with wisdom and spirit, a more ethical domain. Maybe thinking is a cycle unto itself that governs our choices and how we behave. If we change our thinking, we can perhaps change our habits. If we gain knowledge, we will be more understanding. If we understand more, then we will appreciate more the intricate workings of Nature; like being awed by the mechanics of a single leaf. If we are smarter, then we will appreciate the balance designed by Nature. (excerpt from The Incredible Journey of a Water Sprite with Roots.)

Water Sprite enjoying snack time with his rotifer friend


Sunday, 12 May 2019

Putting the Story Pieces Together for Teen Girl Faces Time in the Sand


Putting the Story Pieces Together for Teen Girl Faces Time in the Sand


One Selfie swipe will instantly show me images and words with as brief an engagement as I wish. There is no debate; it's not a relationship. It can show me ignorance, intimidation or threats, bombast, or absolute fakery.  It is normal to favor only cosmetic standards with plastic interventions and sensational spectacles where regular common everyday things and people no longer matter....  

Is this what communication has flat lined to … short term attention spans, immediate reaction, fear and anxiety and judgment calls without facts?


The previous three blogs have summarized this story and explained the challenge of portraying time and the rational for using visual language and symbolism.

1. How to stop social media from taking advantage of a rash and brash teenage brain still in development personified here as a Giant Clown Face of epic proportions.  (blog 1)

2. How to start looking at value of Time and power of choice as a super power tool to avoid making bad mistakes that may affect or change  the total Time Line. (blog 2)

3. How to use diagrams or symbols as a base for discussion of growing up in a mass media world, of visualizing strong social forces, and structuring experience of time. (blog 3)

Now there is time to share a few closing personal words.

There is no simple answer to what is a good life because it makes a unique symbol for each of us within our circumstances. As an old person I have the privilege of looking back at my time line and breathing a sign of satisfaction and relief. My young brain was never assaulted by a social media clown face. Now young people need to be warned about the dangers of growing up too early in a mixed-up media's brew with adult lifestyles and attitudes with no defense from their immature brain development drawn naturally to affection and rewards.

The change is made so much more profound when I fondly remember my teen years. The poster on my bedroom wall was of Dr. Albert Schweitzer, who celebrated success as a musician, writer, humanitarian, and philosopher; and, yet decided as a doctor to open clinics in the poorest villages of Africa.  His photo with his large drooping mustache was the only one that inspired me.

My pop icon wore poodle skirts to her ankles covered with bobby socks. Gyrating was jiving…a good exercise. Drinking and smoking were simply not permitted and to talk back to parents was a matter of being sent to your room without supper.  Only once it happened to me and the guilt of disrespecting my mother still lingers sixty years later. School and good report cards were a serious responsibility with parent's pride in a job well done was the best star of all.

So how in the world did this all change?

The true tragedy is that young girls with their nascent beauty and nurturing spirit now need to be protected from losing their innocence by trying to become desirable "like me" adults before their brain is able to make deductive judgment calls or take on adult responsibilities.

The deeper tragedy is that there seems to be a tolerance to allow any young people to use their cell phones to present a falsehood to the world and still get applause even if it's fake. 

What kind of lesson about morality does this teach them?  What does it mean to manipulate truth on purpose ? How will this carry on into other activities and beliefs about society and norms that are the very fabric of culture and civilization?   

It is a hard exercise to look at all the possible addends in a potential Life experience, and see how a few beginning years (7 teen years) can interfere, derail or even cause death to young people's spirits. The time for youth is short enough to explore, self discover , experience AHA moments, take pride in learning and achieving in daring to climb the mountain of achievement because parents will be their cushion when they fall.

This main theme in of this story is to hold and respect time as if you can hold it in your hand, invisible but all powerful in its choices. To better manage the passage of time, there are numerous pictures or symbols for consideration.

Another recurring theme is that it is not the teenage girl's fault if a Mass Media Circus influences her young rash and brash adolescent brain and corrupts the potential of adulthood before its time.

The moral or lesson is not to give away your privacy to a public sphere but to protect your independent Self, separate from media rule or mob control. There is no pretense of any kind allowed based on predatory influence.

Interestingly, a little damselfly plays the role of life's fragility yet respect. Her nymph larva is about well prepared survival in a pond environment versus an adolescent feeding off social media.

But, how sad, that this abnormal transmutation continues to disrupt the adolescent nature into an adult, based on social media criteria? This book addresses one way to possibly divert or contain it.

How terribly sad when you do a worldwide web search with the words teen girls, and after the first 3 titles about clothes, shoes and accessories; the next items are about real teens twerking, why teen girls crave older partners and a Facebook page for hot teen selfie shots!  Even pornographers have found that they can get more clicks and  views with extreme encounters involving with  teenage girls and boys.

As well, it is time to pay more attention to beginning research that finds "social media use can make profound changes to the brain in similar ways that drug addiction can…receiving likes on the internet releases dopamine in the brain.This creates a sense of pleasure. Similar triggers for this experience includes eating chocolate or winning money."

In the last chapter as Kit wanders down to the beach where she retraces her sand drawings, she realizes the power of Self and protection of Choice.  She comes to terms that many things in her past are not her fault.  Her story serves as a warning to young teens not to fall prey to social media pressures and addictive impulses.

The story concludes with how to use personal cell phones to set boundaries and interact more positively with the social media and environment. Also, there are 10 separate exercise to download and practice some of the concepts outlined in the story.


Your questions, comments and concerns about teen girls in a mass social media culture are always welcome. Together we can work on a resolution, if this matter bothers you, too.

Sincerely,
Annemarie


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But what if there is some kind of super power tool to help make better choices to take you into adulthood? (excerpts)




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